pusillanimous? An amazing word but not an amazing approach for a happy life. The toxic positivity idea that we "deserve happiness" that you keep hearing in movies, media and from everyone that want to feel good and be precieved as nice, has actually done been a major part of the mental health crisis we see in the world and an effective tool for psychological oppression of the population. As it is simply not the reality of our nature, the design of the human mind and our neurobiology is that that