Understanding, trauma bonding, and ADHD relationships. If you have ADHD and you stay attached to people who hurt you confuse you or drain you it’s not weakness. It’s trauma bonding mixed with neurobiology and before we go deeper, follow this page for relationship through ADHD brains were never taught trauma bonding doesn’t always look like abuse sometimes it looks like the person who love bombs, then withdraws the person who apologizes then repeats The friend who needs you then discard you ADHD