Sobriety is about changing your life, not just managing other people's expectations. It’s a tough pill to swallow, but getting sober doesn’t automatically entitle you to a second chance from everyone you’ve hurt. ​Everyone processes grief and trauma on their own clock. If you’re staying sober just to get an apology or a relationship back, your foundation is built on someone else’s choices. ​Stay sober for you. The most sincere apology you can give is changed behavior—whether they choose to witne